i cant believe it but i m still grieving. y m i so surprised? i studied it as a undergrad... n i juz did a continuous professional education course on "Understanding & Attending to grief & loss"! i'm supposed 2 b competent at grief counselling for goodness' sake! y m i so surprised? maybe cos i'd prefer 2 neatly fold it away after taking a long hard look... but alas... it's staying. staying longer than i would ve liked.

so... counsellor, counsel thyself.

Denial is not a river in Eygpt. it's an ocean! u could drown in it

nope... i need the Wonderful Counsellor Himself.

"And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you." John 14:16-17