had a gr8 time wif D. nearly postponed it cos i was so deadtired! decided against cos i go by the "never leave to tmr wat u can do today" saying... n i m not like cheong-ing or anything these dayz lah... n not as if i packed my celebrations way OTT... even tho been dressing up a little more these dayz... celebrations wat... but then remembered i need to save the nicest clothes for my weddings weekend! i toned down on my 'festivities' already liao... low key, nice dinners dats all... anyway, was telling ya abt dinner wif D... nice cheap cafe... can go back there again. this gal ah... is getting so MANY HUGE diamonds! was joking dat she s getting my guy n my wedding minus A! there are (i think) 4 BIG things on D's list that A n I r similar... well darling, i juz like the diamonds... n the vn part... otherwise... juz keep your pigpig. (haha... suddenly rem wat u both said - a shudder scenario: A getting intro-ed to me by PD instead of meeting u... LOL... well well... God IS good to us 3 huh! LOL!) loved the catchup and conversation. priceless!

i think i dun wanna Nov to end! not dat i cant finish my bday celebrations... (was juz joking i m taking 12 days to celebrate... n sang, "on the 1st day of birthday my true love send to me....") juz dat i really shudder abt dec wif all its work, christmas n meta! sigh... n m getting really irritated wif frenz asking how's V's wedding coming along... (sorry L n evie) yesh yesh... me the organiser... sigh... not complaining abt the weddings i m coordinating now... but note to self: no saying yes to organising weddings till further notice! haha

i m tired... m getting WORRIED dat i m THIS tired... when i m not sick, when i have more than 6 hours of sleep... y m i still SO EXHAUSTED???!!

MSN conversation dat JUZ took place:
MA says: your blog always makes me wonder about your schedule
MA says: and how can it be so packed
MA says: without killing you
evanLESS - toi rat met says: wat makes u think it HASNT ??
MA says: maybe you need to take a look at it next year and learn how to say no, and prioritise
MA says:not to say that you're not doing it now
evanLESS - toi rat met says: yesh mdm... wise advise... shall blog it
MA says: but it just looks unbalanced to the point of being really unhealthy
MA says: and i'm rather worried
MA says: i won't say that I UNDERSTAND, for understanding is impossible without being you
MA says: but I *GET* how busy life can be
MA says: especially with "good activities"
MA says:and ministry, and listening to people, and spending time with others
MA says: and it's hard, very hard, to come to a point when you say "no" to people and activities, because there's no point in time when ALL the requests come in to you; they tend to trickle in singularly, and then you say yes to individual activities, and then slowly they pile up again, and you're in the middle of another month, and dog tired and sick (again)
MA says: so if you can, start saying NO to activities (such as my christmas dinner) now, and thin your life
MA says: a too-rich diet has killed many a king
evanLESS - toi rat met says: ok! i ll say NO to your christmas party now thanks gal
MA says: okay
MA says: i'm just worried about you
MA says: not that you're not big enough to take care of yourself

n here's the clincher:
MA says: i love you very much and would hate to see you collapse from exhaustion

so touched! thanks gal... i love you very much too! wat a way to end a not-so-busy yet exhausting day...!